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Matters of the Heart: Are you dating a boy or a matured man?

Difference between dating a boy vs a man. From Collins Oscar the author of emotional 419.

Nos 1. A man knows what he wants and goes for it. A boy may have some what of an idea but not really. A boy is passive, a man is assertive.

2. A man plans for his future and is working towards building a foundation and infrastructure in order to have his own family. A boy lives only in the moment and his plans are mostly around which bar he's going to hit up the weekend.

 3. A man looks for a woman with intelligence who is supportive grounded and encompasses a shared set of value when choosing a partner. A boy cares mostly only for girls who are hot wild and exciting.

4. A man knows when to invest in a woman and jump in with two feet, takes responsibilities. A boy is always testing and runs away from responsibilities.

5. A man knows how to have a good time and be social, but is often busy making strides in his career and building his life. A boy is getting crunk with his buddies at the bar every weekend.

6. A man takes time to reflect on the type of man he want to be, the example he want to leave and the vision for his life. A boy has not established his moral compass or values is often inconsistent.

7. A man has integrity he means what he says and says what he means, he follows through and actions his promises. A boy makes promises but doesn't follow through.

 8. A boy plays games. A man doesn't. To clarify, what i'm referring to "Games" i mean mind games. Now ladies a lot of these differences require taking the time to know someone to figure out if the apple of your eye is indeed a man or a mere boy.

Maturity is when you can handle conflicts within a relationship and not allow it affect the purpose for the relationship. Maturity is not about age, we have 30 -35years old  (man ) we also have 40-45years old (boy) depending on their actions and deeds. You will hear of a young responsible man. And also hear of a old fool adult with no value despite his age. From Collins Oscar. The author of emotional 419. Share with men and women young and old.

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